Leads by example
And Tim posted this article. Quite an interesting read. Here's an excerpt:
One friend who hopes to become a Catholic priest said, “Each night, I have to face the fact that not only do I not have a woman in bed with me now, but I will never, ever have a woman in bed with me.”As people I meet seem to regularly be going through divorces or potential divorce proceedings (met two so far this year), this seems very true. As amcal will note, never settle. :) Short-term gain = long-term pain.
“But married people are lonely, too, aren’t they Jenny?” he asked me.
Live life to the fullest and don't shortchange yourself.
EDIT: I've also linked Soonmin. She was an exchange student at SFU from Korea, joined the Toronto Project of 2001, and is now a Ph.D candidate at MIT. Nuna, naega nuna reul mannasuhnigan, nomu kippuda. :)